Madam Brodie - "Mistress, Domina and Sadist by the sea"
Hello my little kinksters and unicunts, are you breathless with excitement about the possibility of submitting to a stunning Domme? Are you a wannabe Mistress looking to learn the kinky craft from an experienced Goddess? At our Kinkyesque party, you will have the opportunity to peruse a prodigious performance featuring the fabulously fiendish Madam Brodie. Until then, let me introduce you to this delectable Domme a little more!!
How did you get into the Lifestyle?
I can't remember but it's too late to find my way back out now.
Do you live it full time?
My preoccupation with sexuality and kink is pretty full time but being a Dominatrix is just one expression of that.
How long have you been a ProDomme?
I've been professionally involved in BDSM and fetish for more than 20 years in various guises but only offering Pro sessions for 3 years.
How many subs/slaves do you have?
I have 3 in the cupboard under the sink right now... Actually, I prefer to think of them as players rather than slaves and I tend to only have time to play with a handful of regulars. I can probably squeeze another one in under the stairs though...
What do you enjoy most about being a ProDomme?
It has to be the people. The players that I meet and the wonderful contents of their twisted beautiful minds. In just this past weekend my friends and I were entertained by a septuagenarian stripper in a Russian hat, kilt and Cowboy boots using a cock pump, a riding crop and other apparatus he had brought. Twenty-four hours later I was on a roller-coaster at the end of Brighton pier with a 25-year-old girl at the start of her overnight stay. The next morning I thrashed the living daylights out of her. There is no such thing as a typical session.
What has been your favourite experience since you started as a ProDomme
My favourite experiences have been the intimacy shared between myself and my players. There is something incredibly personal and intimate, not just physically but also mentally, about this work. I had a very special mouth-soaping session with a Swedish gentleman that I still remember fondly. I felt incredibly connected with this stranger and I could feel the play flowing strongly and easily, hitting sweet spot after sweet spot; the smells, the feel, the breath and his total surrender to the moment all worked together to create a powerful moment for us both that lingers with me years later. I've been lucky enough to enjoy that same feeling of intimacy many times since, often when fisting. Feeling that major blood vessel pumping hard against your fingertips whilst forearm-deep inside a player's torso, moving and breathing together, that's pretty fucking intimate.
What are your preferred punishments to give?
I'm a big fan of Corporal Punishment. I really enjoy the smack of a hand or paddle, the whoosh of a cane or crop, the thud of a flogger, the crack of a whip... they're all so satisfying and exciting. I love watching the skin react: goosebumps and blushing, swelling and welting, bruises blossoming, hand-prints and stripes, all accompanied by the song of screams. I don't care how much of a cliché it is, I really love a good thrashing.
Do your subs sign a contract with you?
No, although sometimes I make them write lines.
How have you grown/evolved as a professional since you started?
I think I have become more comfortable being myself and not a cardboard cut-out Mistress. I laugh a lot more and obviously my skill-set has greatly expanded.
Do you find that Pro work increases or decreases your enjoyment of BDSM on a personal level?
I have less "need" to express my dominance in the bedroom now, although when I feel like doing so, I am more relaxed and confident about it than ever. I have a lot more tricks up my sleeve that tends to increase everyone's enjoyment.
Do you tell people in real life what you do?
What is real life?
The best and worst part of being Pro?
The best part is the creativity, I love crafting unique experiences, making people's fantasies reality in a safe and appropriate setting; whether that's Alien abduction or a TV game show, interrogation or slut training. Some come with very specific requests, even down to having prepared soundtracks, props and scripts (yes, actual lines); others want "anything Madam desires". Those can be fun, the scope is endless. I have one slut who has given me some of my favourite moments simply by letting me do as I want. At Xmas, I made him a string of anal beads from brussel sprouts and rode him around the dungeon as a reindeer to finally answer the question "what's more effective, the carrot or the stick". Although he gobbled the carrot hungrily, the answer (as we expected) was, in fact, the stick. This same slut also made a dream come true for me in a "human furniture" session. Ever since I heard the expression "you can't stick a flower in an asshole and call it a vase" I wanted to prove it wrong. Slut never knows what I'm going to do with him when he arrives but I asked him to bring some flowers and he brought me a magnificent bouquet. Boy, was he surprised where it ended up but I clapped and squealed with joy. He did indeed make a beautiful vase, it's amazing what you can fit in a pig-hole!
The worst part is players who cancel with crap/no excuses. It's invariably new players and I understand that they lose their bottle and are maybe too scared to confront me with the truth but I am a busy woman with plans to make. I put a lot of preparation into sessions and have to make arrangements with the dungeon to schedule other players around appointments. When a player lets me down it sometimes has a knock-on effect to several other people and makes me look crap. Just let your Mistress know what's going on. She may be pissed off if you cancel but it's better than leaving her hanging. That's why we take deposits.
Have you had any ProDomme training and if so who with?
Over the past 20 years, I've done countless workshops, including one-to-one coaching from my friend Miss Kim Rub, whom I've known since the 90s, in an individualised version of her celebrated Mistress Workshop. I've performed and played with amazing international practitioners such as Midori, Satomi and Mistress Persephone but the single biggest influence on my ProDomme work has been Mistress Dometria. Although we had been aware of each other for many years it was only when I moved to Brighton a few years ago and began looking for premises to session from that we got to know each other. Since then she has become a friend, a sister and a mentor. I've learned a lot from her through Double Domme sessions and she has given me private instruction, even bringing in specialised players out of session just to show me certain skills. Although we have very different styles we share a common respect and passion for the play. She has taught me more than anyone about treating clients with respect and being true to yourself. She also regularly beasts me in the gym.
What amuses you the most in a sub?
What attributes do you look for in a sub?
Professionally: punctuality, enthusiasm, money.
Privately: perversion, wit, libido.
Which other Dommes do you enjoy working with?
The more the merrier. I like working with other Dom/mes and discovering their styles. It's social, it's instructional but most of all it's fun.
Do you have a speciality?
Tickle Torture! I have a genuine sadistic interest in tickling, I love laughing at people while they scream and I am relentless. Given the disproportionate number of tickle enquiries I receive, I would say this is a speciality.
We look forward to meeting you on July 14th at Kinkyesque and I'm sure all the naughty subs are quivering at the mere thought of being in your presence!
Find out more about Madam Brodie over on website http://www.madambrodie.com/
Don't forget you can purchase advance tickets at www.kinkyconsent.co.uk
Photo Credits -
Pic by Dave Pickens
Boots/Shoes by Natacha Marro
Latex by Lady Lucie Latex
Location Murder Mile Studios